Maximum Possible Life

1 Thessalonians 5:11 says, Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. We all have been beaten down by life to one degree or another. Here, Paul here suggests that part of true biblical brotherhood, what the New Testament calls koinonia, is helping each other get better. And one way we can get better—get built up—is through encouraging or affirming one another. How is it that encouragement can build us up? Well, primarily, affirmation helps us grow, both personally and spiritually, because when someone affirms us and believes in us, it helps free us to more fully manifest the person God created us to be. It can empower us to more fully live out our Ephesians 2:10 calling. One of the most amazing illustrations that I have ever seen of the power of affirmation to build someone up is my wife. My wife is an amazing, loving, vivacious, funny, gifted, servant-hearted woman of God. But she was not always like that. I mean, she always had that within her, b...

I used to think that people who believed that there was “The One” for them or their “Soulmate” were silly, overly romantic, and chasing a pipe dream. I didn’t believe that there was just the one perfect person that God chose for you. I mean, God wouldn’t choose someone for you that you might never find. Right? I felt that any two people who had compatible values, beliefs and personalities could, if they were willing to do the work necessary, have a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. That is, until I found my “One,” my “Soulmate.” When I did, suddenly all of that rationalization just melted away and although, even with your soulmate, you still have to do the work necessary, I now have a completely different view than I had before. Now, I’m going to be a little bit vulnerable, so please, pet lovers, don’t hate me (because I got better). But, another attitude I had was that I used to think that people who were super-attached to their pet(s) were kind of pathetic. I concluded that they we...

First, I have always believed that there is, in any discussion, more than one cogent point of view. Hence, I also believe that, in this present crisis, anyone who insists that the current social distancing is the only way to save lives and that anyone who disagrees with them is willing to kill people is failing to see that and, therefore, self-evidently wrong. There is, in fact, a growing number of doctors and virologists who are coming out with the opinion that SIP and wearing masks is making us more susceptible to all kinds of communicable diseases by weakening our immune systems. I personally don't know who to believe, but I think it is pretty arrogant and small-minded to think that your point of view is the only possibly correct one. Second, I am not now, nor have I ever been, a conspiracy theorist. But, I do believe that there is at least some degree of danger in so readily and unquestioningly giving up our first amendment rights. No, I don't think that there is a singl...

You know, my pastor announced on Sunday that he was going to do a class on the subject, "If God is a loving God why does He allow evil in the world?"  Then, after the service I was talking to my pastor and mentioned having been to some pretty dark places over the past couple of years and he, with wonderful empathy, shared that he understood because he had been through some dark times himself.  But then added that he was sure his pain was nothing near the pain I have been through.  I replied by saying something about the worst thing that happens to anyone is the worst thing they have ever experienced and it hurts more than any other thing in their life, so there is no point in trying to compare our pain to someone else's. Then as I was driving home and thinking about these two things (the class topic and my comment about pain), it reminded me of some teaching I did many years ago on the very topic of the problem of a loving God and an evil world, but also remind...

It is a few days before Easter and I have been thinking about the meaning of the Easter story as it relates to, not just its impact on the whole of humanity for all eternity, but also as it relates to me, personally, as I still struggle with weakness and failure, even after having walked with the Lord for nearly fifty years.   And whenever I think about my personal inadequacies, the person in the Easter narrative who always stands out the most, other than Jesus of course, is Simon Peter. Of all of the Lord’s disciples, I have always been kind of partial to the apostle Peter.   Perhaps it is because I can relate to him so much.   He was impetuous, garrulous and rarely considered the consequences before acting.   For example, in Matthew 14, when the disciples were caught in a storm on the Sea of Galilee and Jesus walked out to them on the water, it was Peter who said, “Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the water.”   When Jesus told him to come, ...

It is both surprising and delightful to be, just now, in a place of being the recipient of consistent and genuine affirmation from a significant number of sources.  And it is enlightening to observe the impact that this approbation has had, and continues to have, on my heart and mind.  You know, the Bible says in Proverbs 18:21, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”  Having experienced both the death and the life that are the fruit of what has been repeatedly spoken to me, I can attest to the truth of that passage. Finding myself in environments and relationships where I endured years—actually decades—of negative expectations, judgment of my values and actions, and contempt for my opinions and ideas, left me ineluctably demotivated, utterly depleted emotionally, and with a horribly poor self-image.  The obvious reason for this was that, no matter what I did or how hard I tried, nothing was ever considered good ...